“Fierce Conversations”
Happy June to our awesome team! I can’t believe that summer is already here and kids are out of school. Time seems to be just flying by and I am just 13 weeks away for our third baby being born. We are also selling our home and moving in the process and wow what an experience that has been. I encourage every Realtor to be in the position of a buyer or seller every so often as we forget just how challenging and interesting it can be. As stressful as it is at times to be a seller with two little ones, I am extremely grateful to have this perspective!
This week, I had the opportunity to take a course called “Fierce Conversations.” That title might bring to mind a destructive warrior or an angry lion at first. In fact, I believe my husband’s words in response to my alerting him of my endeavor was “uh oh.” Really, the definition of this class is: A fierce conversation is one in which we come out from behind ourselves into the conversation and make it real.” Pretty cool.
The two days were based on the study that, “Our careers, our companies, our personal relationships and our very lives, succeed or fail gradually, then suddenly, one conversation at a time.” Pretty powerful if you think about it. Consider for a second, how many times you’ve passed on a conversation because you “don’t like confrontation” or “it isn’t worth my time” or “it could open up a can of worms” (all cows by the way). Well, if you follow the principles of Fierce, you’ll understand that not every conversation can change your life, but any conversation could. To put in to perspective just how relevant a conversation is, take a look at the ones you have. The conversation IS the relationship.
There are seven principles we learned before diving in to conversation on a team, coaching and confrontation scenarios and I will leave you with them and encourage you to read the book and more importantly take this class.
- Master the courage to interrogate reality. 2. Come out from behind yourself into the conversation and make it real. 3. Be here, prepared to be nowhere else. 4. Tackle your toughest challenge today. 5. Obey your instincts. 6. Take responsibility for your emotional wake. 7. Let silence do the heavy lifting.
If you would like to hear more about this class, I’d love to chat with you about it. Send me an email or call anytime jerim@kw.com.
Proud of you!
Jeri Moran
