Love and Contribution
Superstars…
Last night I had the pleasure of attending the Oklahoma City National Memorial, honoring the Oklahoma City bombing that occurred on April 19, 1995. It was, perhaps, the most impactful memorial that I’ve ever visited, and I highly recommend that you put it on your “to do list” of places to visit.
There was so much to take in during the tour of this memorial. There are artifacts and remnants of clothing, equipment and buildings. There are photographs and stories and newspapers and news casts all around as you walk through a maze that tries to recreate a morning that started like any other and ended like no other. And the actual memorial that’s outside, constructed in place of the Murrah building’s setting, beckons feelings of reverence and peace and humility and respect and pride. However, part of the power of this memorial comes from sitting on a stone wall, in front of the reflecting pond that separates you from the famous lawn of bronze and glass chairs that sit in honor of each and every victim of the bombing, while a U.S. Park Ranger tells you all about the bombing and how the memorial came to be, and what every aspect of it means.
The reason I’m writing about this is because I think that one of the most important ingredients in the power of this memorial is the U.S. Park Ranger and his obvious love for what he does for a living. To look at him, he is very unassuming. He resembles a computer nerd in a Park Ranger’s uniform, complete with the “Smokey the Bear” hat. I peg him to be somewhere between 25 and 30 years old. He has big teeth that stand out due to his large smile. Yet, however unassuming he is, when he starts to speak he captures your attention with a spirit that clearly feels honored to be the person making an impact on you today. Every single word he says commands your full attention. He makes the bombing feel like it happened “just the other day.” He makes the entire memorial come to life by explaining how every little detail of the experience has a distinct, thoughtful, and powerful meaning. And he makes you feel wonderful about all of the good that exists as a result of such a tragic event. As I listened to him, I couldn’t help but wonder how many times he’s said the exact same thing. Hundreds? Maybe even thousands? Throughout his 20 to 30 minute presentation, he never said, “um.” It was presented with the skill of a Shakespearean actor on Broadway, passionately delivering every line. He was obviously not winging it. And I got the feeling that the confidence he has in delivering the lines of his presentation allows him to focus on wrapping emotion and tonality around each word, in order to create the perfect mood for us to absorb the magnitude of what we were experiencing. It was beautiful. It was beautiful because he wasn’t selling anything. He was coming from a place of love and contribution – love for what he does for a living and for his desire to enhance our experience with his level of skill in telling such an historic story.
If you’re wondering what this has to do with you, the answer is, “everything.” The way you present yourself to everyone you encounter can be impressive or oppressive, inspiring or boring, sharp or dull, profitable or not profitable. Knowing and mastering your scripts will help you help your clients, which, in turn, will help you help yourself. Raving fans are not created by people who don’t love their job and who lack the confidence to see opportunity in difficult times. Raving fans are created by people who can verbally create a visual that bridges the reality of today with the possibilities of tomorrow. They are created by people who can take their client’s problems and turn them into past problems, people who can shine a flashlight on the pathway to freedom, security, peace, prosperity and equity. Raving fans are created by people who enthusiastically come from love and contribution. They are created by people who surprise others by exceeding expectations.
That’s what you and I do every day. We swim against the tides of mediocrity as one agent, making sense of the market and finding the people who are smart enough to listen and take action that will benefit them and their families. How often are you picking up the phone and surprising your clients with compelling opportunities? Once a week, once a month, once a year? Are you properly communicating the opportunities of the market to people who come through your open houses, to your website, to your investment seminars, to your email database, your advocates and wealth determiners?
The heroes of this market will be those of us who keep our eyes on the prize, and who harness the emotions of the market with compelling logic, which will require compelling scripts and dialogues. Make your presentations count. Every interaction you have is an opportunity to present well and change your future, or not. It’s your choice. You can choose to find opportunities and then find the people who are looking for those opportunities, or you can find people who are looking for opportunities and then find the opportunities they are looking for. Either way, you have to get good at skills and scripts. The better you get at them, the better you’ll be. The better you get at them, the less resistance you’ll get. What you have to say, how often you say it and how you say it matters.
If a U.S. Park Ranger can create raving fans, then you can, too. If you don’t, someone else will.
Your #1 Fan…
SHAUN
